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23. Ethics / C. Virtue Theory / 1. Virtue Theory / a. Nature of virtue
The great error is to think that happiness derives from virtue, which in turn derives from free will [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: The tremendous rat's tail of errors that has hitherto counted as the highest inspiration of humanity: 'All happiness is a consequence of virtue, all virtue is a consequence of free will!'
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (The Will to Power (notebooks) [1888], §705)
     A reaction: A nice suggestion about the hidden agenda of Greek and Christian philosophy. If one began to doubt free will, where would that leave Socrates and Aristotle?
23. Ethics / C. Virtue Theory / 1. Virtue Theory / b. Basis of virtue
First morality is force, then custom, then acceptance, then instinct, then a pleasure - and finally 'virtue' [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: Force precedes morality; for a time morality itself is force, to which others acquiesce. Later it becomes custom, and then free obedience, and finally almost instinct; then it is coupled to pleasure, like all habitual things, and is now called 'virtue'.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Human, All Too Human [1878], 099)
     A reaction: How few philosophers delve into the history of the concepts they work with, and yet how revealing it can be. Richard Taylor was wonderful on 'duty'. You will never grasp the 'problem of free will' if you don't examine its history.
23. Ethics / C. Virtue Theory / 1. Virtue Theory / c. Particularism
No two actions are the same [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: There neither are nor can be actions which are the same.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (The Gay (Joyful) Science [1882], §335)
Actual morality is more complicated and subtle than theory (which gets paralysed) [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: Actual morality is infinitely more subtle, more complicated, more thoughtful than theoretical morality: the latter still stands awkward and embarrassed at the starting point.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Unpublished Notebooks 1881-82 [1882], 7[202])
     A reaction: Glad to find an explicit endorsement of particularism in Nietzsche, since so much of his discussion points that way.
Moral generalisation is wrong, because we should evaluate individual acts [Nietzsche, by Foot]
     Full Idea: Nietzsche believed that moral generalisation was impossible because the proper subject of evaluation was, instead, a person's individual act.
     From: report of Friedrich Nietzsche (Works (refs to 8 vol Colli and Montinari) [1885]) by Philippa Foot - Nietzsche's Immoralism p.155
     A reaction: This suggests a different type of particularism, focusing on the particular decision, rather than on the details of the situation. Presumable no two moral decisions are ever sufficiently the same to be compared. But a lie is a lie.
Moralities extravagantly address themselves to 'all', by falsely generalising [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: All moralities are baroque and unreasonable ...because they address themselves to 'all', because they generalise where one must not generalise.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Beyond Good and Evil [1886], §198)
     A reaction: 'Particularism' is a recent label, but one finds passing remarks from many earlier philosophers which support that approach to ethics. No one was ever more opposed to strict moral rules than Nietzsche.
23. Ethics / C. Virtue Theory / 1. Virtue Theory / d. Virtue theory critique
You are mastered by your own virtues, but you must master them, and turn them into tools [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: You had to become your own master, and also the master of your own virtues. Previously, your virtues were your master; but they must be nothing more than your tools.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Human, All Too Human [1878], 006)
     A reaction: What on earth would Aristotle make of that? Nietzsche offers a sort of metatheory for virtues. I take this to be a form of particularism - that you live by your virtues, but occasionally you can discard a virtue if it seems right. Lie, steal...
Many virtues are harmful traps, but that is why other people praise them [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: Virtues like industriousness, obedience, chastity, filial piety and justice are usually harmful to those who possess them. When you have a real, whole virtue you are its victim. But your neighbour praises your virtue precisely on that account.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (The Gay (Joyful) Science [1882], §021)
     A reaction: This is the conspiracy theory of virtue. We want people to do menial or undesirable jobs, so we dress them up as wonderful virtues, and make people feel good for possessing them. There must be some truth in this.
After Socrates virtue is misunderstood, as good for all, not for individuals [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: From Socrates onwards arete [virtue] is misunderstood - first it had to reestablish itself over and over, and yet it did not want to do this on an individual basis! But rather tyrannically 'good for all!'.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Unpublished Notebooks 1884-85 [1884], 25[208])
     A reaction: Why not both? The virtues of a good citizen can't be private, but we are all allowed to develop virtues that concern us alone.
Nietzsche thought our psychology means there can't be universal human virtues [Nietzsche, by Foot]
     Full Idea: Nietzsche believed, in effect, that as the facts of human psychology really were, there could be no such thing as human virtues, dispositions good in any man.
     From: report of Friedrich Nietzsche (Works (refs to 8 vol Colli and Montinari) [1885]) by Philippa Foot - Nietzsche's Immoralism p.157
     A reaction: Presumably each individual can only have virtues appropriate to their individual nature, which is something like channelling their personal psychological drives. Can't we each have our individual version of courage or honesty?
Virtue is wasteful, as it reduces us all to being one another's nurse [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: Nothing would be more expensive than virtue: for in the end it would give us the earth as an infirmary, and 'Everyone to be everyone else's nurse' would be the pinnacle of wisdom.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Writings from Late Notebooks [1887], 04[7])
     A reaction: Once again, I think that Nietzsche does not understand Aristotelian virtue theory. This attacks Christian virtue (his bęte noir), with its emphasis on compassion and humility. A truly virtuous person is more likely to be an artist/politician/philosopher.
Virtue for everyone removes its charm of being exceptional and aristocratic [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: The preachers of virtue are its worst enemies. For they teach virtue as an ideal for everyone; they take from virtue the charm of the rare, the inimitable, the exceptional and unaverage - its aristocratic magic.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Writings from Late Notebooks [1887], 10[109])
     A reaction: At last I think I have found why Nietzsche disliked Aristotle, who makes elementary 'phronesis' (practical reason) a sufficient intellectual endowment to achieve virtue, with no need of more than moderate wealth or power. I prefer Aristotle.
Virtues must be highly personal; if not, it is merely respect for a concept [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: A virtue has to be our invention, our most personal defence and necessity: in any other sense it is merely a danger. What does not condition our life harms it: a virtue merely from a feeling of respect for the concept 'virtue', as Kant desires it, is harm
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (The Anti-Christ [1889], §11)
     A reaction: Presumably he sees virtue as the cutting edge of stiffling conventional morality. I'm a bit nervous about embracing highly personal virtues, partly because they might isolate me from my community. I ain't no übermensch.
Virtue has been greatly harmed by the boringness of its advocates [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: May I be forgiven for the discovery that 'virtue' has been harmed by nothing more than it has been by the boringness of its advocates.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Beyond Good and Evil [1886], §228)
23. Ethics / C. Virtue Theory / 2. Elements of Virtue Theory / b. Living naturally
Be natural! But how, if one happens to be "unnatural"? [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: Be natural! But how, if one happens to be "unnatural"?
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (The Will to Power (notebooks) [1888], §066)
     A reaction: Quite so, though Nietzsche isn't the person to offer a solution. Choose the route of Aristotle ('normal' human function), or Kant (escape from nature into reason).
Not "return to nature", for there has never yet been a natural humanity [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: Not "return to nature", for there has never yet been a natural humanity.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (The Will to Power (notebooks) [1888], §120)
     A reaction: I like that. The notion of dividing humanity into natural and unnatural makes me uneasy (and certainly isn't PC), and yet us all having to be 'natural' seems a conservative straight-jacket.
'Love your enemy' is unnatural, for the natural law says 'love your neighbour and hate your enemy' [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: One drives nature out of morality when one say "love your enemies": for then the natural "Thou shalt love thy neighbour and hate thy enemy" in the law (in instinct) has become meaningless.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (The Will to Power (notebooks) [1888], §204)
     A reaction: When the stoics said 'live according to nature' they meant according to reason, which presumably compromises with enemies. Profoundly Christian acts may be unnatural, but they are very moving.
23. Ethics / C. Virtue Theory / 2. Elements of Virtue Theory / c. Motivation for virtue
The 'good' man does the moral thing as if by nature, easily and gladly, after a long inheritance [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: We call 'good' the man who does the moral thing as if by nature, after a long history of inheritance - that is, easily, and gladly, whatever it is. …He is called 'good' because he is good 'for' something.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Human, All Too Human [1878], 096)
     A reaction: I am amazed at the brief and rather disrespectful remarks that Nietzsche makes about Aristotle's ethics, given how close this idea is to the ideal of Aristotle (though the latter who not emphasise 'inheritance'!).
We would avoid a person who always needed reasons for remaining decent [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: It would arouse doubts in us concerning a man if we heard he needed reasons for remaining decent: certainly, we would avoid him.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (The Will to Power (notebooks) [1888], §313)
     A reaction: This is a perfect slogan for virtue theory, and so rather surprising coming from Nietzsche. And 'decent' isn't a great Nietzsche value (though he WAS a very decent man).
Virtue is pursued from self-interest and prudence, and reduces people to non-entities [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: Above all, gentlemen of virtue, you are not our superiors: it is a miserable self-interest and prudence that suggests virtue to you. If you had more strength and courage you would not reduce yourselves to virtuous nonentities in this way.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (The Will to Power (notebooks) [1888], §318)
     A reaction: It is certainly true that virtue is about self-interest, and also that it tends to be rather conservative. But we recognise the virtues of adventure and risk.
23. Ethics / C. Virtue Theory / 2. Elements of Virtue Theory / e. Character
What does not kill us makes us stronger [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: What does not kill us makes us stronger.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Writings from Late Notebooks [1887], 10[87])
     A reaction: A famous remark! Actually, of course, a very stressful human life tends to be much shorter than a comfortable one, but Nietzsche wouldn't equate strength with longevity. Nowadays we are all a bunch of softies.
We contain multitudes of characters, which can brought into the open [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: There is a multitude of characters hidden within each one of us: and attempts should be made to allow some of them to appear.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Unpublished Notebooks 1884-85 [1884], 25[021])
     A reaction: So character is not fate, contrary to Heraclitus (his hero). We are more inclined now to see varied characters as social roles (as in Irving Goffman). This idea challenges it, with our intrinsic nature containing variety.
23. Ethics / C. Virtue Theory / 2. Elements of Virtue Theory / f. The Mean
The instinct of the herd, the majority, aims for the mean, in the middle [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: The instinct of the herd considers the middle and the mean as the highest and most valuable: the place where the majority finds itself.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (The Will to Power (notebooks) [1888], §280)
     A reaction: The reason, I think, for Nietzsche's hostility to Aristotle. But the doctrine of the mean doesn't just seek the middle. It seeks what is appropriate. The mean for bravery and cowardice is not somewhat timid bravery; it is alarmingly brave, but sensible.
23. Ethics / C. Virtue Theory / 2. Elements of Virtue Theory / i. Absolute virtues
Some things we would never do, even for the highest ideals [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: There are actions that we will never allow ourselves to engage in, not even as a means to the noblest end e.g., betraying a friend.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Unpublished Notebooks 1881-82 [1882], 7[241])
     A reaction: Jean Genet made a point of betraying his friends. I wonder why Nietzsche thinks we should not betray our friends? Being Nietzsche, he will certainly have asked the question.
23. Ethics / C. Virtue Theory / 2. Elements of Virtue Theory / j. Unity of virtue
You should not want too many virtues; one is enough [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: You should not want to have too many virtues. One virtue is already a lot of virtue.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Unpublished Notebooks 1881-82 [1882], 5[18])
     A reaction: A typically challenging thought from the great maverick of philosophy. Which virtue would you choose? Do some virtues entail further virtues?
23. Ethics / C. Virtue Theory / 3. Virtues / a. Virtues
Honesty is a new young virtue, and we can promote it, or not [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: Among neither the Socratic nor the Christian virtues does honesty appear: it is one of the youngest virtues, still quite immature. ...We can advance it or retard it, as we see fit.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Dawn (Daybreak) [1881], 456)
     A reaction: I associate the virtue of honesty with the cult of sincerity of feelings which arose in the romantic movement.
The Jews treated great anger as holy, and were in awe of those who expressed it [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: The Jews felt differently about wrath than we do and decreed it holy; in return, they, as a people, viewed the foreboding majesty of the individual with whom wrath showed itself connected, at a height at which a European is incapable of imagining.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Dawn (Daybreak) [1881], 038)
     A reaction: If you thought wrath was really wonderful then presumably you would aspire to partake of it, but I see no signs of the Jews having been an especially wrathful people. It sounds like the tantrums of Tudor monarchs, which was their royal privilege.
Christianity replaces rational philosophical virtues with great passions focused on God [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: Christianity disallows all moral value to the virtue of philosophers - the triumph of reason over affects - and demands that affects reveal themselves in splendour, as love of God, fear before God, fanatical faith in God, and blindest hope in God.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Dawn (Daybreak) [1881], 058)
     A reaction: Faith, hope and charity are the three great Christian virtues that were added to the four cardinal virtues of the Greeks.
The cardinal virtues want us to be honest, brave, magnanimous and polite [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: Honest towards ourselves and whatever else is our friend; courageous toward the enemy; magnanimous toward the defeated; polite - always. This is how the four cardinal virtues want us to be.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Dawn (Daybreak) [1881], 556)
     A reaction: I take this to be Nietzsche genuinely asserting his four cardinal virtues, rather than being ironic. He certainly asserts politeness as the fourth virtue earlier in the book. Cf a different list in Idea 20382
The four virtues are courage, insight, sympathy, solitude [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: To remain master of one's four virtues: courage, insight, sympathy, solitude.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Beyond Good and Evil [1886], §284)
     A reaction: Compare this with 'Daybreak (Dawn)' 556. Solitude is the surprising addition, defended as the urge to 'cleanliness', when since humanity is 'unclean'.
Courage, compassion, insight, solitude are the virtues, with courtesy a necessary vice [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: Our four cardinal virtues: courage, compassion, insight and solitude - they would be unbearable to themselves if they hadn't forged an alliance with a cheerful and mischievous vice called 'courtesy'.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Writings from Late Notebooks [1887], 02[13])
     A reaction: Nietzsche was wonderfully wicked. I struggle (with Aristotle) to see how a naturally social creature can have solitude as a virtue. It is startling to see Nietzsche naming compassion as a virtue, but how ironic is the whole remark?
A path to power: to introduce a new virtue under the name of an old one [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: A path to power: to introduce a new virtue under the name of an old one.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (The Will to Power (notebooks) [1888], §310)
     A reaction: A nicely wicked Nietzschean suggestion. One doesn't replace altruism, one 'reinterprets' it. Or democracy. Or 'true' courage.
Modesty, industriousness, benevolence and temperance are the virtues of a good slave [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: Modest, industrious, benevolent, temperate: is that how you would have men? good men? But to me that seems only the ideal slave, the slave of the future.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (The Will to Power (notebooks) [1888], §356)
     A reaction: An extremely good critical observation on virtue theory. Start from scratch, and list the virtues you would want in a good slave.
Many virtues are merely restraints on the most creative qualities of a human being [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: Industry, modesty, benevolence, temperance are just so many hindrances to a sovereign disposition, great inventiveness, heroic purposiveness, noble being-for-oneself.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (The Will to Power (notebooks) [1888], §358)
     A reaction: The traditional virtues here are reasonably precise and clear, but Nietzsche's preferred virtues are vague, and open to bizarre interpretations. One foresees a bunch of obsessive arrogant fools trying to live up to Nietzsche's ideal.
All societies of good men give a priority to gratitude [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: Every society of good men (that is, originally, of powerful men) places gratitude among its first duties.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Human, All Too Human [1878], 044)
     A reaction: His reason here is that gratitude is a way of displaying the power of the powerful!
Virtues can destroy one another, through jealousy [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: Every virtue is jealous of the others, and jealousy is a terrible thing. Even virtues can be destroyed through jealousy.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Thus Spake Zarathustra [1884], 1.07)
     A reaction: How much more subtle and plausible than the picture of accumulating virtues, like medals! Zarathustra says it is best to have just one virtue.
23. Ethics / C. Virtue Theory / 3. Virtues / c. Justice
Justice (fairness) originates among roughly equal powers (as the Melian dialogues show) [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: Justice (fairness) originates among approximately equal powers, as Thucydides (in the horrifying conversation between the Athenian and Melian envoys) rightly understood.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Human, All Too Human [1878], 092)
     A reaction: The moral position of the powerless is a notorious problem for social contract theories of morality. They have nothing to offer in a mere contract.
When powerless one desires freedom; if power is too weak, one desires equal power ('justice') [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: One desires freedom as long as one does not possess power. Once one does possess it, one desires to overpower; if one cannot do that (if one is too weak), one desires 'justice', i.e. equal power.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (The Will to Power (notebooks) [1888], §784)
     A reaction: Personally I hope the Martians have freedom and justice, but that is presumably just a sublimation. People have given up power for freedom and justice.
23. Ethics / C. Virtue Theory / 3. Virtues / d. Courage
Military idea: what does not kill me makes me stronger [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: From the military school of life. - What does not kill me makes me stronger.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Twilight of the Idols [1889], Maxim 08)
     A reaction: The published version! Perhaps the most famous remark in all of Nietzsche, and no one realises it is ironic! It is a sarcastic remark about the battering ram mentality of the Prussian militarist! He had served in the army.
Cool courage and feverish bravery have one name, but are two very different virtues [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: Courage as cold bravery and imperturbability, and courage as feverish, half-blind bravura - one calls both of these things by the same name! How different are the cold virtues from the warm ones!
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Dawn (Daybreak) [1881], 277)
     A reaction: How few philosophers are capable of making a subtle but accurate observation like this! How many other virtues should be subdivided?
23. Ethics / C. Virtue Theory / 3. Virtues / e. Honour
The supposed great lovers of honour (Alexander etc) were actually great despisers of honour [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: The type of the ambitious man who thirsts after honour is supposed to be Napoleon, or Caesar, or Alexander! As if these were not precisely the great despisers of honour!
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (The Will to Power (notebooks) [1888], §751)
     A reaction: I'm not sure how Nietzsche knows this, but it sounds right. Great success comes from total focus on the end, not on incidental rewards.
23. Ethics / C. Virtue Theory / 3. Virtues / f. Compassion
Apart from philosophers, most people rightly have a low estimate of pity [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: Aside from a few philosophers, men have always placed pity rather low in the hierarchy of moral feelings - and rightly so.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Human, All Too Human [1878], 103)
     A reaction: Presumably this includes Jesus among the 'philosophers'.
The overcoming of pity I count among the noble virtues [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: The overcoming of pity I count among the noble virtues.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Ecce Homo [1889], Wise §4)
     A reaction: Hm. I can just about see that there might be more important things than compassion for suffering, but I can't see any human activity that makes it worthwhile to trample on pity.
In ancient Rome pity was considered neither good nor bad [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: An act of pity was during the finest age of Rome considered neither good nor bad.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Beyond Good and Evil [1886], §201)
Invalids are parasites [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: The invalid is a parasite on society.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Twilight of the Idols [1889], 8.36)
     A reaction: I'll skip the rest, but you get the idea. The point (with which I sympathise) is that life is primarily about what healthy people do. Something has gone wrong if all we do is worry about the sick and the suffering.
Pity consoles those who suffer, because they see that they still have the power to hurt [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: The pity that the spectators express consoles the weak and suffering, inasmuch as they see that , despite all their weakness, they still have at least one power: the power to hurt.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Human, All Too Human [1878], 050)
     A reaction: This pinpoints how the will to power led to the inversion of values.
You cannot advocate joyful wisdom while rejecting pity, because the two are complementary [Scruton on Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: Pity and good cheer are complementary, ..so there is something contradictory in a philosophy that advocates joyful wisdom, while slandering pity as the enemy of the higher life.
     From: comment on Friedrich Nietzsche (The Gay (Joyful) Science [1882]) by Roger Scruton - Animal Rights and Wrongs p.35
     A reaction: A good objection to Nietzsche. He has a rather solipsistic view of joyful exuberance etc., and fails to realise how social such things must be. In that, Nietzsche was caught in the romantic tradition of Wordsworth and co.
Plato, Spinoza and Kant are very different, but united in their low estimation of pity [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: Plato, Spinoza, La Rochefoucauld, and Kant are four spirits very different from one another, but united in one thing: their low estimation of pity.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (On the Genealogy of Morals [1887], Pref §5)
     A reaction: Plato is no surprise, as virtually no Greeks value pity. Spinoza and Kant are interesting. Presumably Kant's 'contractualism' places respect far above pity, and is theoretical neglect of animals would fit. Remember Nietzsche embraced a horse in Turin.
23. Ethics / C. Virtue Theory / 3. Virtues / h. Respect
Teach youth to respect people who differ with them, not people who agree with them [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: The surest way to ruin a youth is by teaching him to respect those who think like him more highly than those who think differently.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Dawn (Daybreak) [1881], 297)
     A reaction: On the whole I prefer to read the philosophers who seem to be on my side, because I am trying to strengthen my explanation of the world, and opponents aren't much help. I do read opponents, if they explicitly challenge what I defend.
23. Ethics / C. Virtue Theory / 4. External Goods / c. Wealth
People now find both wealth and poverty too much of a burden [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: Nobody grows rich or poor any more: both are too much of a burden.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Thus Spake Zarathustra [1884], 1.01)
     A reaction: True. Most people I know are just puzzled by people who actually seem to want to be extremely wealthy.
23. Ethics / C. Virtue Theory / 4. External Goods / d. Friendship
Many people are better at having good friends than being a good friend [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: In many people the gift of having good friends is much greater than the gift of being a good friend.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Human, All Too Human [1878], 368)
Women can be friends with men, but only some physical antipathy will maintain it [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: Women can very well enter into a friendship with a man, but to maintain it - a little physical antipathy must help out.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Human, All Too Human [1878], 390)
If you want friends, you must be a fighter [Nietzsche]
     Full Idea: If you want a friend, you must be willing to wage war for him: and to wage war, you must be capable of being an enemy.
     From: Friedrich Nietzsche (Thus Spake Zarathustra [1884], 1.15)