Single Idea 9236

[catalogued under 22. Metaethics / B. Value / 2. Values / g. Love]

Full Idea

It is not among the defining features of love that it must be hot rather than cool, ..and nor is it essential that a person like what he loves.

Gist of Idea

Love can be cool, and it may not involve liking its object

Source

Harry G. Frankfurt (The Reasons of Love [2005], 2.4)

Book Reference

Frankfurt,Harry G.: 'The Reasons of Love' [Princeton 2006], p.42


A Reaction

An interesting pair of observations. The greatness of love would probably be measured by length, or by sacrifice. Extreme heat makes us a little suspicious. It would be hard to love something that was actually disliked.

Related Idea

Idea 21425 We can love without respect, and show respect without love [Kant]