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Single Idea 20891

[filed under theme 25. Social Practice / F. Life Issues / 5. Sexual Morality ]

Full Idea

It seems strange for a man and a woman to give no more thought to the question of whether they should engage in sexual intercourse than to the question of whether they shoud play tennis.

Gist of Idea

Does engaging in sexual intercourse really need no more thought than playing tennis?

Source

Vincent C. Punzo (Morality and Human Sexuality [1969], p.221)

Book Ref

'Ethics in Practice (2nd Ed)', ed/tr. LaFollette,Hugh [Blackwell 2002], p.221

A Reaction

This strikes me as a reasonable point, but times have moved on since 1969, and for plenty of people nowadays playing tennis is a bigger issue than having sex, because of the time, equipment and effort involved.

The 14 ideas with the same theme [social issues concerning sexual relationships]:

5846 A lover using force is a villain, but a seducer is much worse, because he corrupts character [Socrates, by Xenophon]
298 While sex is very pleasant, it should be in secret, as it looks contemptible [Plato]
1479 Animals have not been led into homosexuality, because they value pleasure very little [Plutarch]
6212 Lust involves pleasure, and also the sense of power in pleasing others [Hobbes]
21467 Would humanity still exist if sex wasn't both desired and pleasurable? [Schopenhauer]
18302 Man and woman are deeply strange to one another! [Nietzsche]
19639 We all need sexual secrets! [Cioran]
20890 Why do sexual relationships need permanence, if other relationships don't? [Punzo]
20891 Does engaging in sexual intercourse really need no more thought than playing tennis? [Punzo]
20888 Rape of children is dreadful, but no one thinks children should have a right of consent [Foa]
20887 A rape disregards the status of being a person - but so does all assault [Foa]
20889 If men should lust and women shouldn't, that makes rape the prevalent sexual model [Foa]
23113 Sexual morality doesn't require monogamy, but it needs a group of sensible regulations [Kekes]
18554 Prostitution is wrong because it hardens the soul, since soul and body are one [Scruton]