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Single Idea 22233

[filed under theme 22. Metaethics / B. Value / 2. Values / g. Love ]

Full Idea

Love is the demand to be loved.

Gist of Idea

Love is the demand to be loved

Source

Jean-Paul Sartre (Being and Nothingness [1943], p.488), quoted by Christine Daigle - Jean-Paul Sartre 2.5

Book Ref

Daigle,Christine: 'Jean-Paul Sartre' [Routledge 2010], p.79


A Reaction

Is that all love is? Hard to imagine someone loving another person without hoping that the other person will reciprocate. You need high self-esteem to 'demand' it. Low self-esteem merely hopes for it. He says the other person may feel the same.


The 11 ideas from 'Being and Nothingness'

For Sartre there is only being for-itself, or being in-itself (which is beyond experience) [Sartre, by Daigle]
Sartre says consciousness is just directedness towards external objects [Sartre, by Rowlands]
Sartre rejects mental content, and the idea that the mind has hidden inner features [Sartre, by Rowlands]
Sartre's freedom is not for whimsical action, but taking responsibility for our own values [Sartre, by Daigle]
Sincerity is not authenticity, because it only commits to one particular identity [Sartre, by Aho]
Man is a useless passion [Sartre]
Appearances do not hide the essence; appearances are the essence [Sartre]
Love is the demand to be loved [Sartre]
Man is the desire to be God [Sartre]
Fear concerns the world, but 'anguish' comes from confronting my self [Sartre]
We flee from the anguish of freedom by seeing ourselves objectively, as determined [Sartre]