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Single Idea 9234

[filed under theme 22. Metaethics / B. Value / 1. Nature of Value / d. Subjective value ]

Full Idea

It is not possible for a person who does not already care at least about something to discover reasons for caring about anything.

Gist of Idea

If you don't care about at least one thing, you can't find reasons to care about anything

Source

Harry G. Frankfurt (The Reasons of Love [2005], 1.11)

Book Ref

Frankfurt,Harry G.: 'The Reasons of Love' [Princeton 2006], p.26


A Reaction

This is the key idea of this lovely book. Without a glimmer of love somewhere, it is not possible to bootstrap a meaningful life. The glimmer of caring about one thing is transferable. See the Ancient Mariner and the watersnake.


The 16 ideas from 'The Reasons of Love'

It is by caring about things that we infuse the world with importance [Frankfurt]
Our criteria for evaluating how to live offer an answer to the problem [Frankfurt]
If you don't care about at least one thing, you can't find reasons to care about anything [Frankfurt]
We might not choose a very moral life, if the character or constitution was deficient [Frankfurt]
What is worthwhile for its own sake alone may be worth very little [Frankfurt]
Ranking order of desires reveals nothing, because none of them may be considered important [Frankfurt]
People want to fulfill their desires, but also for their desires to be sustained [Frankfurt]
Freedom needs autonomy (rather than causal independence) - embracing our own desires and choices [Frankfurt]
Love creates a necessity concerning what to care about [Frankfurt]
Loving oneself is not a failing, but is essential to a successful life [Frankfurt]
Rather than loving things because we value them, I think we value things because we love them [Frankfurt]
Love can be cool, and it may not involve liking its object [Frankfurt]
The paradigm case of pure love is not romantic, but that between parents and infants [Frankfurt]
Morality isn't based on reason; moral indignation is quite unlike disapproval of irrationality [Frankfurt]
I value my children for their sake, but I also value my love for them for its own sake [Frankfurt]
Boredom is serious, not just uncomfortable; it threatens our psychic survival [Frankfurt]