Full Idea
All this preaching about tolerance, love for one's neighbour and so on, are ultimately strategies to avoid encountering the neighbour.
Gist of Idea
Tolerance and love are strategies to avoid encountering our neighbours
Source
Slavoj Zizek (Conversations, with Glyn Daly [2004], §2)
Book Reference
Zizek,Slavoj: 'Conversations with Zizek (with G.Daly)' [Polity 2004], p.72
A Reaction
I have begun to wonder whether some such motivation underlies the modern obsession with raising huge sums for charity.